There are so many labels in today's modern world that nearly everyone has some sort of label; emo, jocks, preps, whores, sluts (they have difference, remember that), scene, hipsters, druggies, punks, etc. However, when it comes to getting a job, most places will give you a look over to see how you dress, and however you are dressed, is how they will interpret your personality. Say if I'm in a band shirt that I cut up and did some DIY TLC on, with a skirt, and combat boots. If I were to walk into, say, Target dressed as such, more often than not you won't be very well talked to. You could be sweet, kind, and friendly towards them and not say a bad word or show the slightest of attitude, but it doesn't matter to them. If you don't look like a jock or prep, or at least, a tuned down version of you're "style" then, you most likely will not be hired if you choose to apply later. Sure, you'll still get the application, they can't deny you that (depending on what state you live in...), although, later on when you turn in the app. they often won't really look at it because they have in their mindset already that you're one of those *insert label here* kids that *insert stereotypical actions of your label here* and that you're *insert more negative, stereotypical actions here*.
Seems like a whole bunch of bullocks, right?
To a lot of teens and young adults, it is. In today's world everyone knows that there isn't that many jobs to be offered in the first place, especially for teens. Young adults may have a upper hand to some, depending if they are in college and in a college based area. However, in a college town with college students as it's main population, it is hard to get a job. But college kids are not as discriminated as teens are. College kids are old enough, and may have enough experience to know how to preform certain tasks that teens, may not know how to. It's unfair, but in reality life is unfair in general. A point that I don't understand in today's society is that, yes, we may be more excepting or people's beliefs, sexuality, and race, but because of the way that they may DRESS can affect someone's chances of getting a job is somewhat hypocritical.
Haven't people heard of the saying: "Don't judge a book by it's cover?" I do that. But it's for REAL books, not the metaphorical meaning of it. When meeting someone, one should not just notice their attire or how their hair is styled or not. First impression are, somewhat everything. But if your dressed as you're preferred style and present yourself very warmly and kind and derived of attitude, it won't matter much to an adult or possible employer. If an adult of any standard does not know much other than the stereotypes of how teens dress nowadays, they will only think that you are a stereotypical person with stereotypical traits, that overall, make you a stereotypical bad person. Whenever a jock, prep, or a non-labeled teen applies for a job, there is a 89% chance that they will be more welcomed and accepted than those who dress emo, punk, goth, etc.
Something that really "Grinds my gears" is when a higher respected label is hired even though they have no experience and don't know what they are doing half the time. When that person gets fired for their lack or skill, the employer may look back to you, but will remember your stereotype style and move onto the next one who looks like the last person, but is actually more experienced, or at the same level of experience than you. How can people determine another person and their personality only on their outer image? The only way, it seems, a punk, emo, goth, etc. person could get a job is at Hot Topic (becoming overrated), Spencers (if you're 18+), or if your town has one, a small punk, emo, alternative, clothing shop that won't give a 1,2 damn if you have piercings on your lips and bright blue and purple hair.
If people see you as a label stereotype, future employers and unknown adults especially, then it will be harder to get the job you need/want. In the world today so many teens are a type of label, but in the work force, it is only frowned upon because of the negatives the stereotype comes fourth with. You can dress emo and not cut or do drugs or anything of that sort, but before you even shake hands with you're future employer, they will already have the mindset/opinion that you're a whiny person, who is always depressed and shy that cuts themselves. That's never the right way to go about thinking, ever. A sad fact is, though, no one can change how these people perceive teens with alternative/different styles. Sure they are more accepted today then five years ago. But because of the stereotypes that had been instilled those five years stay with the older generation, therefore, making a teens coming-of-age mission of getting a job, much more difficult than it should be.
"All my life I've been good, but now, What the hell?!" -Avril Lavigne
Saturday, April 30, 2011
Monday, April 25, 2011
The Short Guide to Losing Bad Friends, and Learning How To Stay Calm and be Mature When Dealing With Their Petty BS
Congratulations! You finally dropped/unfriended that one rude/annoying/arrogant/ignorant/selfish/mean/petty/bitchy/etc. person that you once called a "friend" to move on with you're life and to not deal with their (*insert any of the following characteristics above or your own here*) bullshit anymore. Unfortunetley, while you may be feeling better about not having this person as you're friend anymore, that ex-friend may be trying to get back at you or acting like a little bitch/dick. In these times when this occurs, you must think through on how you are going to deal with this annoying little problem until it is resolved or just scurries away like the mouse that they are.
You Must Have Stopped Maturing At The Age Of 4...
It's the day after you parted ways from you're old friend. You feel as if a weight has been lifted off you're shoulders and you can finally do what you want without their cynical judgments or negative ways. But that all slowly starts to melt away right off of you as soon as you begin to talk to mutual friends and you hear of what the ex-friend have been saying about you.
This is the beginning of another, unnecessary path of Hell that you wanted to avoid. You're mutual friends tell you of the "where is so-and-so? What are they doing? Did you hear? What are they saying about me?" And etc. It can and WILL get annoying and irritating; why do they NEED to know about what your doing? You aren't friends anymore and you don't want them to know ANY of your business.
Step 1: Tell you're mutual friends that you don't want them talking to them about you or anything that you say or tell them. It's private and personal and most important of all, none of their business.
Step 2: This may sound childish, but if they are ocntinuely asking about you to no end, then try to avoid them and spend a little less time around the mutual friends that you two have in common.
*Note: You can NOT tell you're mutual friends to pick sides. That will only result in MORE drama and fighting and can cause loss of friends.
Step 3: If the ex-friend is now talking crap about you because of you're shot friendship; whatever you do, do NOT fight back by doing the same thing they are doing to you. It will only make you a just as bad or even worse of a person if you sink to their low level of gossiping and constant complaining.
There's a Fork In The Highway; Take The Higher One or The Lower One...
Now it comes to the ultimate decision on what to do: will you take the high road? Or the low road? Sure, both do have advantages in some way but which one will surely help you come out of all of this on top of the grassy hill of respect and maturity? There isn't much any way of escaping the possible mess and aftermath of any of this, but choose which path you believe is the right one.
It's obviously the high road. If you picked the low road than you'll only have more problems then you had before.
You Must Have Stopped Maturing At The Age Of 4...
It's the day after you parted ways from you're old friend. You feel as if a weight has been lifted off you're shoulders and you can finally do what you want without their cynical judgments or negative ways. But that all slowly starts to melt away right off of you as soon as you begin to talk to mutual friends and you hear of what the ex-friend have been saying about you.
This is the beginning of another, unnecessary path of Hell that you wanted to avoid. You're mutual friends tell you of the "where is so-and-so? What are they doing? Did you hear? What are they saying about me?" And etc. It can and WILL get annoying and irritating; why do they NEED to know about what your doing? You aren't friends anymore and you don't want them to know ANY of your business.
Step 1: Tell you're mutual friends that you don't want them talking to them about you or anything that you say or tell them. It's private and personal and most important of all, none of their business.
Step 2: This may sound childish, but if they are ocntinuely asking about you to no end, then try to avoid them and spend a little less time around the mutual friends that you two have in common.
*Note: You can NOT tell you're mutual friends to pick sides. That will only result in MORE drama and fighting and can cause loss of friends.
Step 3: If the ex-friend is now talking crap about you because of you're shot friendship; whatever you do, do NOT fight back by doing the same thing they are doing to you. It will only make you a just as bad or even worse of a person if you sink to their low level of gossiping and constant complaining.
There's a Fork In The Highway; Take The Higher One or The Lower One...
Now it comes to the ultimate decision on what to do: will you take the high road? Or the low road? Sure, both do have advantages in some way but which one will surely help you come out of all of this on top of the grassy hill of respect and maturity? There isn't much any way of escaping the possible mess and aftermath of any of this, but choose which path you believe is the right one.
It's obviously the high road. If you picked the low road than you'll only have more problems then you had before.
Sunday, April 24, 2011
Happy Easter!
I hope everyone is/has had a lovely Easter! Hopefully you got lots of yummy chocolates, jellybeans, and presents as well!
LOOK AT THE PRETTY COLORFUL EASTER EGGS!!!!! O.O
SuckerPunch can cause a Vanessa Hudgens Obsession...
For all of you guys who have seen SuckerPunch, you probably have one of the two reactions: That was sooo cool! I love how they had the different realities! Or...What the hell was the movie on?!
Or, most likely, you have both thoughts.
Well, my friend, Blondie(she enjoys being called that), did a review of the movie and well...it's a teenage girl explaining SuckerPunch...It made me giggle XD
Loves you Blondie! XD
Or, most likely, you have both thoughts.
Well, my friend, Blondie(she enjoys being called that), did a review of the movie and well...it's a teenage girl explaining SuckerPunch...It made me giggle XD
Loves you Blondie! XD
Saturday, April 23, 2011
Writers Appreciation
Have you ever given somebody a poem or song you had written especially for them? It doesn't matter who is was for; a parent, a friend, or a boyfriend or girlfriend. Anyways, you always hope that their reaction will be good and great. But what happens when they are less than excited and appreciative than you would care for? You feel like utter crap because they don't like it or it isn't their type of "style" or "sound" they enjoy the most.
Well, to that I say Eff them! If somebody writes a poem or song, or ANYTHING crafted by their own imagination and two hands (or one hand, you never knows)you should be God damn grateful and accept the gift happily! Not say "Oh, it's too mushy for me." Or some other crap like that. Honest to say, it hurts when people do that. Or when they even try to modify it to their liking.
Seriously? Is this not good enough for you? Does it not fit your standards? It feels like a hard slap in the face from my perspective. You pour out your heart and soul into this piece of work and in return you get shrug or an insult. Or better yet, they don't even care to acknowledge it what-so-ever.
I'm sure it hurts a hell of a lot more when they don't even care as to much look at the writing you have produced for them. It makes you're heart break and makes you feel worthless and upset. It really makes me question if this person cares enough about what I do for them.
I often ponder what would happen if people were to stop writing these expressions of emotions to those they hold close to them. Would they even care to notice or ask why they haven't wrote any for them/to them?
This actually has happened before and I say I'm usually not in the mood to write, which sometimes is true; I don't just pull ideas and random things from my arse and call it a poem/story/song. I sit down and think and write out what I want to say in my writings. Anyhow, I have also inquired at some points that I am writing a new piece of poetry/stories/or a song and people will ask if it's about them and if so in what way will they be portrayed in? If it's bad what did they do now? And it goes on and downwards from then on.
It's honestly very annoying and rude and especially very hurtful to me or to anybody else who has experienced this before. You don't want to be angry and yell at them because they'll be a fight, but you also don't want to be ignored of your sweet gesture.
Who knew being gifted with a writer's quill could end up with you only being disappointed and hurt by someone you hold very near and dear to you're heart.
Well, to that I say Eff them! If somebody writes a poem or song, or ANYTHING crafted by their own imagination and two hands (or one hand, you never knows)you should be God damn grateful and accept the gift happily! Not say "Oh, it's too mushy for me." Or some other crap like that. Honest to say, it hurts when people do that. Or when they even try to modify it to their liking.
Seriously? Is this not good enough for you? Does it not fit your standards? It feels like a hard slap in the face from my perspective. You pour out your heart and soul into this piece of work and in return you get shrug or an insult. Or better yet, they don't even care to acknowledge it what-so-ever.
I'm sure it hurts a hell of a lot more when they don't even care as to much look at the writing you have produced for them. It makes you're heart break and makes you feel worthless and upset. It really makes me question if this person cares enough about what I do for them.
I often ponder what would happen if people were to stop writing these expressions of emotions to those they hold close to them. Would they even care to notice or ask why they haven't wrote any for them/to them?
This actually has happened before and I say I'm usually not in the mood to write, which sometimes is true; I don't just pull ideas and random things from my arse and call it a poem/story/song. I sit down and think and write out what I want to say in my writings. Anyhow, I have also inquired at some points that I am writing a new piece of poetry/stories/or a song and people will ask if it's about them and if so in what way will they be portrayed in? If it's bad what did they do now? And it goes on and downwards from then on.
It's honestly very annoying and rude and especially very hurtful to me or to anybody else who has experienced this before. You don't want to be angry and yell at them because they'll be a fight, but you also don't want to be ignored of your sweet gesture.
Who knew being gifted with a writer's quill could end up with you only being disappointed and hurt by someone you hold very near and dear to you're heart.
BURD!!!!!!
Here's something to make you laugh you're ass off and say "BURD!!!!!"
Thanks to Sammy for this video and hilarious joke!
First Post....
Hello people of the blogging world! I'm new on here and I'm not really sure what I should be doing on here...my best friend has had a blogger for a time now and I was bored and interested in dabbling in some blogging.So, I'm not really sure what else to post about. I could tell you all about my life and happenings but all I have at the moment is a great boyfriend who lives 2,000 miles away from me, some crazy, kick-ass best friends that are always there, a family I rather not be around, and some awesome concerts that are right around the corner in May.
I don't know. Maybe you wanna know more about that, but I won't bore you any longer with my random ramblings.
My God, I'm beginning to ramble like my boyfriend XD I will end you're suffering here for now. But here's I ams.
Comment or whatever. I'll respond to you :)
I don't know. Maybe you wanna know more about that, but I won't bore you any longer with my random ramblings.
My God, I'm beginning to ramble like my boyfriend XD I will end you're suffering here for now. But here's I ams.
Comment or whatever. I'll respond to you :)
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